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Thursday, May 22, 2008
Check out New Dr. Sam Web site!
Feel free to check out my new Dr. Sam web site. There are a bunch of articles I wrote and some interesting news. Check out my article on "What is a Healthy Person" or the one titled, "How to Spot a Narcissist." There is a fascinating article/documentary news item called, "Mindshock: Transplanting Memories?" It has a four part documentary you can click on. The documentary deals with cellular memory evidenced via heart transplants. Those receiving heart transplants experiencing the memories, emotions, and tastes of those who donated the heart. One blue-collar worker with little education suddenly became a poet. Check it out.
Go to: www.DrSam.tv
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Your Story: Old or New?
Reruns
People repeat behavior, even that which doesn’t work, because it offers security and familiarity. Doing the same thing results in a known outcome; predictability masquerades as effectiveness. When you move beyond a familiar pattern, you may experience anxiety.
Repetition reinstates the security of the familiar, even if the repetition is limiting or frustrating. By opting for repetition, people sabotage invention and imprison creativity. Stuck behavior has stuck consequences. Staying in a rut long enough begins to seem like fate. That outlook can lead to despair. The ultimate question about fixed beliefs or “stuckness” is: Does it work?
Who Wrote This?
Change may be difficult, but it begins with the easy recognition that you are the author of your own life story. Insight, understanding, and theory do not create change. New theories alone will not drive old lived experiences into extinction. Lasting change requires new lived experiences to replace old experiences – you invested a lot of years in the old system, and you will have to practice the new stuff as hard as you practiced the old stuff.
4 BASIC TESTS FOR CHANGE
1. What do you want to change?
2. What do you want to outgrow?
3. What do you want to avoid?
4. What do you want to enhance?
by David Krueger, MD
Sunday, January 27, 2008
Carried in the father's arms
Deb and I have been going through our own storm for about 2 years ... and I can affirm that we have felt the father holding us close to his heart, telling us that he loves us, and that we are going to make...he will carry us through!
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
The Straight Story
It is the true story of Alvin Straight, a man who drives a 30-year-old riding mower 240 miles for 6 weeks in order to reconcile his relationship with his brother.
I have posted this story, plus a brief outline from chapter #20 of Purpose-Driven Life on how to restore broken relationships at www.friends4thejourney.com
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
A Christmas Wish from a Shrink
As I ponder what to wish you all during this festive season, I decided to wish you no less than what I wish for myself and those in similar life’s journey. With some seriousness and some tongue in cheek I wish that this next year you:
- Escape The Matrix with its illusions, lies, and games (Christian and other).
- Be able to go very deep into the soul and deal with those demons of denial that create guilt, despair, anger, depression, and even disease until…
- The soul is bare and naked before God, stripped of its narcissistic armor and false persona ready to…
- Receive healing, grace, and joy that lets us…
- Experience the lightness of liberation and freedom to be the real us without the need to wear disguises and masks.
Free as a bird… No more hiding…
We can then walk in the very presence of God without obstruction enveloped in the stillness of His love. All inner noise turned off as you watch God.
Dr. SamFriday, December 14, 2007
A Snippet from Peter Gent's "Missional Movements..."
In the Gospel of Luke, chapter 10, Jesus sends out seventy disciples to go to the villages he was about to go to himself, telling the disciples to go find people who would invite them into their homes, and once there, to eat their food, release blessing, heal their sick, and proclaim that the kingdom of God had come near. Before he sends them out, however, Jesus tells the disciples, "The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.” We must stop for a moment to consider: weren’t the disciples the ones that were in that very moment being sent by the Lord of the harvest into his harvest? What was Jesus’ intent in telling the very workers he was sending to pray for sent workers?
Herein lies the key to missional movements. The implication of Jesus’ words are that the great majority of effective workers who will be called to the harvest are yet to be sent, for they are currently still in the harvest. The effect is that the strategic challenge in starting an apostolic movement is not in mobilizing the church to mission, it is mobilizing the harvest to mission. And consequently, the great task of the church in the West is not in reinventing the church but rather rebirthing the church. It is time to release new missional movements, from which workers will arise out of the harvest to carry the church to new heights and reshape the very fabric of the western church.
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Christianity Rediscovered
http://marydaly.blogspot.com/2006/07/christianity-rediscovered_27.html
I was on the plane reading Christianity Rediscovered when I read something so enlightening that for about five minutes I had to resist the urge to start a theological conversation with the strangers seated next to me...lucky for them I was able to resist myself, although it was very hard! But now I can share what I read with you...
Vincent J. Donovan was a Catholic missionary in Tazania and a member of the Holy Ghost order...bear with me. After some years of working in the schools and hospitals that served the people of the Masai tribe, he received permission to meet directly with a gathering of interested Masai people and their chief to speak to them solely about the good news of Christianity - Jesus' gospel and the God he spoke about. Donovan met weekly with them in the early morning - a time that would not interfere with their daily activities and work - and began by bringing up a topic or theme each week, asking about their thoughts on the topic and then offering his. Their first climactic moment came at the end of their discussions on God: Donovan ended the God discussions by comparing their understanding and beliefs about God with Abraham's understanding and beliefs about God (of the Old Testament/Hebrew Bible).
Donovan explained that like them, Abraham had also believed that God blessed him and his family in a special and unique way - that his God loved and blessed him above all others. Donovan explained that like the Masai, Abraham tried to restrict God to his tribe and his land and so made God less of a God than God really was (pg. 34). Donovan told them that the God they believed in who loves rich people and hates poor people, who loves good people and hates evil people – who loves some over others – does not exist (pg. 35)! Donovan said, "There is no God like that. There is only the God who loves us no matter how good or how evil we are, the God you have worshipped without really knowing [it], the truly unknown God – the High God" (pg. 35). He told them the High God is really the only God.
With the silence that followed Donovan became nervous that maybe he had gone too far – had he offended the Masai by saying that their tribal God whose love they restricted to themselves and to their land did not exist? Then suddenly someone asked Donovan, "This story of Abraham – does it only speak to the Masai? Or does it speak also to you? Has your tribe found the High God? Have you known Him [sic]?" (pg. 35).
"Has your tribe found the High God?"
Donovan caught himself and realized the question required serious consideration...he thought to himself, "suddenly I remembered that since the time of Joan of Arc, if not before, the French have conceived of God as being rather exclusively and intimately associated with their quest for glory. I wonder what god they prayed to? Americans have some kind of certainty that 'almighty God' will always be on their side in all their wars. Hitler never failed to call on the help of 'Gott, der Allächtige' in all his speeches; in all his adventures…I have been to many parishes in America where they prayed for victory in war. I recognized the God they were praying to – the tribal God. And what about the God who loves good people, industrious people, clean people, rich people, [add your own bias here; married people, church-going people, etc.] and punishes bad people, lazy people, dirty people, thieving people, people without jobs and on welfare [gay people, conservative people, etc.]? Which God is that?" (pg. 35-36)
Finally Donovan realized that he, we, are no different than the Masai – we also only worship a tribal God – who blesses and loves those that are basically more like ourselves. Donovan, humbled before the Masai said, "No, we have not found the High God. My tribe has not known Him [sic]. For us, too, He [sic] is the unknown God. But we are searching… I have come a long, long distance to invite you to search for [God] with us. Let us search for [God] together. Maybe, together, we will find [God]" (pg. 36).
Maybe, together, we will find God – the High God.
Donovan first went to the Masai to speak to them about the good news, about the God and the gospel of Jesus Christ; to tell them that God is above all tribes and clans, nation and race, and that God loves us all; that the world is sacred and full of unlimited possibilities and expectant hope; that the human race is all one – we are all one brother/sisterhood – that we are all sons and daughters of a common parent – that we are all of equal value and importance. Donovan first went to the Masai to offer them Jesus' good news and Jesus' God, but soon realized that he also came from a people – a tribe – that does not believe in the good news or know the High God of whom Jesus spoke: the God who loves and values all people equally; the good news that say we no longer have to live our lives with "the burning hatred, hostility, and prejudice of one race or tribe toward another" that causes us to tear each other and the earth apart (pg. 40) and instead declares that we live in a sacred world of endless possibilities and expectant hope (pg. 38).
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After reading this part of the book I was overwhelmed with the need to extrovert and talk about this revelation from Donovan's book that became my own revelation. I thought about the way I had just heard a relative speak about how "the devil tricks people into thinking that homosexuality is ok with God"…does this relative's god only love heterosexual/straight people? I thought about our country's rhetoric against "those terrorists – our enemies,"…does the god of the United States only love "Americans" and not Iraqis or Palestinians?
Do I think that my god only loves those who are "open-minded," have feminist ideals and support gay rights?
I realized that from now on, when I catch others and I try to box, limit, and define who God is and whom God loves, I can think of Abraham. I can remind myself and others that Abraham was called by God to leave behind his assumptions about whom God loves and blesses, and to leave behind his tribe and his nation and his land so that all the nations will be blessed. Because when we make such assumptions, when we restrict god to our way of thinking – to what we think is good, true and right – we are indeed only worshiping a tribal god – a god who is less that the High God who called Abraham out of his tribe – and we cannot and should not claim that this tribal god of ours is the God of the good news, the God of Christianity, or the God about whom Jesus came to share.
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I have yet to finish Donovan's book – but already it has given me much food for thought – and at this point what I can say about the God of Christianity and the good news of Jesus Christ is that, "Indeed, we have not found the High God. My tribe has not known God. For us, too, the High God is unknown. But we are searching for God…let us search for God together. Maybe, together, we will find God…and rediscover Christianity."
Sunday, December 9, 2007
Knocking on Heaven's door
I'm knocking right along with them...
Monday, December 3, 2007
How do I live without you?
I'm thinking that every day...miracles happen. I how do live without him?
How do I get through one night without you
If I had to live without you
What kind of life would that be
Oh I, I need you in my arms
Need you to hold
You're my world, my heart, my soul
If you ever leave
Baby you would take away everything good in my life
And tell me now
How do I live without you
I want to know
How do I breathe without you
If you ever go
How do I ever, ever survive
How do I
How do I
Oh, how do I live
Without you, there'd be no sun in my sky
There would be no love in my life
There'd be no world left for me
And I, oh Baby, I don't know what I would do
I'd be lost if I lost you
I
f you ever leave
Baby you would take away everything real in my life
And tell me now
How do I live without you
I want to know
How do I breathe without you
If you ever go
How do I ever, ever survive
How do I
How do I
Oh, how do I live
Please tell me baby
How do I go on
If you ever leave
Baby you would take away everything
Need you with me
Baby don't you know that you're everything good in my life
And tell me now
How do I live without you
I want to know
How do I breathe without you
If you ever go
How do I ever, ever survive
How do I
How do I
Oh, how do I live
how do I live without you
how do I live without you baby
how do I live....
- LeAnn Rimes
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Cultivating Community -PDL19
In the meantime, I just posted some brief comments on my experience with community life beginning in my early 20s, followed by a one-page outline of chapter 19 in Rick Warren's PDL: Cultivating Community.
His point to ponder is that community requires commitment. I find that the current generation of 20-somethings crave community but resist making the commitment necessary for it to exist. Any thoughts?
Here is the link: Cultivating Community.
Joseph
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Lord of the Rings - Into The West
Lyrics
Lay down
Your sweet and weary head
The night is falling
You have come to journey's end
Sleep now
And dream of the ones who came before
They are calling
From across the distant shore
Why do you weep?
What are these tears upon your face?
Soon you will see
All of your fears will pass away
Safe in my arms
You're only sleeping
What can you see
On the horizon?
Why do the white gulls call?
Across the sea
A pale moon rises
The ships have come to carry you home
And all will turn
To silver glass
A light on the water
All Souls pass
Hope fades
Into the world of night
Through shadows falling
Out of memory and time
Don't say
We have come now to the end
White shores are calling
You and I will meet again
And you'll be here in my arms
Just sleeping
Chorus
And all will turn
To silver glass
A light on the water
Grey ships pass
Into the West
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Seekers, believers, Christians or just simply friends?
I like the word, "seekers" ... although some may not yet be actively seeking ... "pre-believer" or pre-follower works ...
I also like "friends" on a journey, or traveling companions. We are all on a journey, regardless of our level of faith. I view the secular people I am spending time with as simply "friends." Some are more connected to Jesus than others ... but I find self-identification as a "Christian" to be a very poor guide to the level of their faith and commitment. In other words, some who call themselves Christians (many actually) often have less faith and less true commitment to the name (character) of Christ, than many who do not call themselves Christians. God looks on the heart .... sounds like Matt 7, doesn't it? "Lord, Lord..."
I have actually stopped thinking about people in terms of "Christian" and "non- or pre-Christian" ... and I think of them as on a continuum (from -10 to +10 - Engle’s Scale) of faith and openness to God.
I recently attended a Quaker worship service (which I really liked). They call themselves the “Society of Friends” and they call anyone who visits them (even agnostics or atheists) “friends”.
One of the important (and problematic) functions of religion is to provide a sense of group identity (us versus them). A particular religion or social group will define itself against the “others” who are not part of them…hence, so much religious violence, for example in the Balkans between Catholics, Muslims and Orthodox, or the war on terror between “Christians”, Jews and Muslims … or the civil war in Iraq between Kurds, Sunni’s and Shia’s.
That’s why I believe that Jesus never intended to establish a “religion” … he came seeking a relationship, and he came to abolish the “dividing wall” between gentile and Jew, slave and free, male and female. He was severely critical of the Jews for trying to “own” God and control access to His kingdom and for viewing themselves as superior and “chosen” in distinction with the gentile “dogs.” Christians” do the same thing today. The last thing Jesus wanted was to set up another religion so that people could call themselves “Christian” and look down upon “sinners.” The highest title that Jesus gave anyone was found in John 15:15 when he called his disciples “friends.”
joseph
PS: there is a medical update from Deb on http://www.friends4thejourney.com/ and I'll be posting my most recent email reflection on "Made to Belong" from the PDL on there later today.
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Deconstructing the Church Part 2
Several years ago, I remember hearing a friend, Dr. Dow Robinson, trace the modern church “meeting” back to Greek Theater. As a pastor of a church, that shook me.
So…after leaving the Spanish church where I pastored in
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Ultimate Reality
Watchman Nee
In light of Bob Mumford's cry that "they just want to see His face", how can we bring Christ to the world in a way that they encounter Him and not a formula?
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Deconstructing the “Church” -Part 1
From a missional point of view, we wanted to develop a model of church life that can easily be replicated in any social group or context with minimal scaffolding...Like catching or uploading a virus.
So, we started “deconstructing” layers of church life. The building was the first to go…then Sunday School, worship team…centralized giving and a joint financial account, then the leadership structure: the senior pastor, elders and staff.
Not surprisingly, one of the hardest things to get rid of was a weekly “meeting” for structured worship (worship meaning music and singing). This was especially hard for those who were raised in a context of weekly Sunday morning meetings. We now encourage the smaller committed groups to decide for themselves how often, when and where to meet, as we also encourage them to to give but empower them to hear from God about where to give.
We suggest Acts 2:42 as a guideline for their gathering. To truly empower the laity, and abolish the clergy-laity division will require more radical action than most leaders have been willing to take up to this point.
Monday, September 17, 2007
Jesus and personal responsability
PHI 2:12 So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling;
GAL 6:5 For each one shall bear his own load.
1JO 2:27 And as for you, the anointing which you received from Him abides in you, and you have no need for anyone to teach you; but as His anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, you abide in Him.
Any thoughts how to interpret these in the our current context? What does it mean for us to work out our salvation? Or bear own own load? Why does John say that we have no need for anyone to teach us? In what way does his anointing teach us al things?
